Front Porch

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Suzanne Ryan

Does the front porch hold the spirit of the people who gather there along with battered wicker, faded cushions, thirsty potted plants, and rain-soaked magazines one can almost hear the laughter and feel the wetness of tears shared?

Each morning. I once begrudged the effort it took to restore the porch to order: sweeping ,watering, rearranging, and gathering linens and scattered mail.

Now I perform the task tenderly as one would care for an aged loved one.This porch and I are connected, We have shared our space and our time with close friends, family members, neighbors, customers, painters and strangers.

Dogs and children feel comfortable here and settle quickly into the peaceful rhythms of storytelling.

Many visitors warmed by a cup of tea have gone beyond the occasional front porch nap to a full night’s sleep, nestled into the downy softness of a colorful quilt,

Candlelight and conversation create lasting memories that make it difficult for one to think of leaving-for the season, for the year or forever.

Oct. 2008

Fresh Start

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Good intentions are easily set aside in retirement by small distractions, so I have been missing  for five years.

I am back and determined to write more. In the past five years I have welcomed into our family five beautiful grandchildren. They keep us busy flying back and forth across the country and contemplating a possible move to the west coast. I am now known as Mama Suzie, Miss Suzie and Grandma Suzie.

Professional consulting took a back seat to parental consulting, something that is not always welcome. I wonder why our adult children do not appreciate the way we did things.

Today’s parents have access to too much information from strangers via the internet on how to raise the perfect child. So perhaps I can be of assistance to those of you seeking answers from an internet stranger, and my kids can ask your moms.

A school psychologist once told me to “Love” them and let them know they were loved, and that is the only advice I needed to raise a good person. I did, and they are.

Last night I told my husband I had to dispose of  the numerous three-ring binders from my professional life, and he recommended I give them away rather than shred them. Giving them away for 15 years has still not cleared the shelves and closets.

This morning a young lady approached me at our local Y and asked if I remembered her. Did I ever and was I thrilled to meet my former student Mallory as an adult.!!! One of the many books of advice I started to write and never finished was about this child’s process of becoming a reader and writer by age six.

Today Mallory is a behavioral therapist working with autistic children and she is happy to receive my binders and advice. She is the inspiration for me to begin blogging again today .

For those of you parents and teachers with young children who might be looking for some internet advice, my published work is available at

https://www.teacherpayteacher.com         Suzanne Ryan

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Deadline

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Today I finished a project I started ten years ago with a friend and colleague. I gave myself an August 1 deadline. What started off as a simple task has evolved into a monumental undertaking. I learned so much along the way from new friends and gained a respect for the magic of technology. My husband of 44 years reminds me daily that I am retired and do not have to do these things. The question to myself is why????

Take a peek at Teacher Pay Teacher under Common Chords and see if you can answer my question.

BLOGGING ALONG

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Ten years ago I left the classroom to further my pursuit of identifying best practices in education. My work as an early literacy consultant allows me to ask the questions everyone else is afraid to ask and to provide a listening ear.

Contrary to popular belief all veteran teachers who retire from their classroom responsibilities do not simply fade away to the golf course or a condo in Florida. Many use the time as an opportunity to travel to all the places they taught about, help raise their grandchildren or volunteer. I decided to pamper myself and treat every day as a snowday.

After a whirlwind trip out west I spent my first three months of retirement “sleeping in.” That soon became old and I indulged in a pastime that never became a habit-watching TV. After about a week of sitting in my PJ’s until noon I called all of my friends and invited them to lunch. We talked teacher talk. I finally asked myself the question, “Is that all there is?”

Since I neither play golf nor have grandchildren in the past nine years I: completed a degree in educational administration, taught a group of teachers in a foreign country, learned a little about gardening, went on a silent retreat-but I wasn’t, practiced yoga at sunset on a boathouse rooftop, learned a little about water painting, took a law class, made ravioli from scratch, survived a knee replacement, tutored a family from BURUNDI, watched our two daughters get married, added a new gathering place kitchen to my home, took a writing class, an art class, a piano-in-a-day class and tried my hand at painting and fiddling, co-taught at a national conference with a children’s musician, made a baby quilt, survived the empty nest syndrome, taught over 50 workshops throughout the country, read over 100 books, made a concerted effort to change the kindergarten entrance age in NYS, went white water rafting in Montana, took a cooking class in France, mastered g mail and facebook , survived a thunderstorm in a tent, cleaned some of my closets, sorted some of my children’s books, organized some of the shelves in my office, started writing half a dozen books and finally recovered from my mother’s accidental death. I have asked a million questions, wondered about the answers and thought and thought and thought.

I am a 32 year veteran of the classroom and I still continue to notice, wonder and think about the things that worked and those that don’t. I consider myself a lifelong learner and will talk about those things I notice in everyday life. I will share my craft knowledge and include tips on parenting/teaching when I feel it is appropriate.

Today I finished a book I’ve been writing and I’m ready for something new. Sooo…..here I go blogging along.